Aligning my values…

Recently, I’ve had a moment to reflect about what is important to me and what I really want out of my life jobwise. I don’t want just a job, I want a career that aligns the best of me, my talents and values.

Have you ever stopped to think about what yours are?

I did.

I was given a copy of Russ Harris’ list of 58 Core Values and I was asked to choose just 6. I wittled them down to 15 and then really took time to think about all the things that make me, well, me.

My Top 6 Core Values

  1. Fun – I want to enjoy my interactions and even in the midst of chaos or when things go wrong be able to have a laugh, get up and try again.
  2. Connection – I am a people person. I want to work with people, not numbers. I want my supports to make a real difference in your life.
  3. Authenticity – What you see is what you get, I’m truthfully honest and if something doesn’t work or I don’t know…I’ll say it, then try to find out.
  4. Co-operative – I love to brainstorm and work as a team with the people around me in equal partnership. I like the brainstorming philosophy – no right or wrong, just a plethora of ideas to bring to the table.
  5. Curiosity – I love to learn. I watch TED Talks often on random while doing my boring chores – a 2 for 1 win of my time! If I don’t know something I start to explore.
  6. Flexibility – I can creatively work in the moment, with the people and resources that are present. I can read a situation quickly and learn to adapt and navigate supports as we go along. Nothing is set – I’ve ditched many a lesson and let the students come up with a plan and to be honest, I’ve been surprised at their ingenuity. Letting my student’s control their own learning was the most powerful lesson my students taught me.

I have spent some time doing some self-inventory work as I recently fell into a job role that on the surface looked like what I wanted, but at the core was not me at all. I’ve never felt like this before in my career or any other position (work/voluntary) I have held. This was strange new territory for me. I left. Now it’s time for me to venture out again and work the way I want to.

I want my workplace to be with people, starting where they are at, within their own spaces providing meaningful support. Choice and control I’ve heard a lot about this for other people, now it’s my time.

Resume in pictures!

One of the best exercises I did recently was pretty simple!

Just draw a picture of your future career and thoughts 🙂 Simple right?

I have to say that moment was profound…if only we could give pictorial resumes…

I include 2 photos from that day. What drawing taught me was simpleness and less words can often really send a clear message. I think of Leunig. 🙂

So my CV…I think I will do this is I ever employ someone. It’s a brilliant technique.

It’s really made me think…get creative!

Kind regards,

nicole

The day I presented sitting down with my foot up!

On December 2, 2018 I presented at a Carers Day Out which was a collaborative event between IDareU, Yarrunga Community Centre, Real Life Theatre and myself. It was an honour to have been asked and included to talk on Carer Wellbeing.

This is a passion close to my heart as through the years of my teaching I sat as I heard carers speak about the joy, trials and life that comes with being a carer. I loved my Parent Support Group Meetings…this is when I felt like I was doing what it was I was born to do…along with teaching. I remember thinking after one particular IEP meeting that I wish I could do this full-time…and so I have plotted this path…with a few little hurdles in my way.

After a very long year of recovering from a serious complex foot lisfranc injury, 5 breaks in my foot and 3 surgeries after fainting from endometriosis complications I was so excited to be given the chance to do something…so I jumped, or rather crutched my way into this presentation on Carer Wellbeing.

Carers are one of the lowest recorded populations studied in terms of wellbeing…many live their lives like they are in a battle zone. The last person receiving care is the carer…which is why now I want to venture in this space.

I hope you enjoy the presentation I have put together…

The greatest indicator of good health is social support!

I gave this presentation sitting down with my foot up! I really enjoyed not standing for my presentation (well I couldn’t anyway) but it’s the way I am talking with, not to, an audience. Plus, I’m not the type who likes to stand up the front – I like to be sit and connect with people face to face, at their side.

I’ll be forever thankful for this opportunity to present as it was at only 2 weeks after surgery. I didn’t know if I could, but I did…It helped in my own recovery. So it’s my takeaway – have goals, something to focus on forward…I have plenty now. First though my 2019 priorities are to finish what I started my Austswim Teacher Training Course and my Masters of Health Sciences (Rehabilitation Counselling). It will be done!

Something to look forward to…

Please note the phone number below in the presentation is no longer valid. 0421554609.

Nicole Fernley

Your local Support Specialist

 Maroondah, Knox, Yarra Ranges and Manningham areas.

Counselling | Consultancy

Support for parents, carers and people experiencing life with a condition, injury or illness in Melbourne’s Eastern Suburbs.